Wednesday, February 11, 2009

A Che

My grandma (we called her A Che) passed away over a month ago at the age of 90. I miss her sometimes, but I'm happy that she's not in pain anymore. Up until last summer, she was relatively healthy and mobile- she could bathe herself, cook whatever she wanted, go up and down the stairs, as well as carry a conversation. However, she never quite recovered from an infection and her dialysis weakened her even more. Over the next few months, she got progressively worse, and then one day she couldn't really talk anymore and every movement she made sucked up her energy. Most of my family was able to see her before she passed away- my uncle came back from Mexico, my aunt and cousin flew in from Germany, and we even snuck in my oldest of the young kids (she's 12, and the visitor's age is 14). My grandma lived a really fulfilling life- she survived the journey from Vietnam to America, and had 10 kids, 29 grand kids, and 35+ great grand kids (too many for me to count right now but I think it's around there), and was able to travel to Canada, parts of Europe, and back to Vietnam. Here are some pictures from last year's Tet at my parents' house:


The oldest and the youngest

Here's a picture from Mother's Day last year

I have lots of memories of her- a funny one that comes to mind is that we had some family/friends over for a get-together and she was sitting on the couch, and all of a sudden she was rushing up the stairs and we were like, where are you going?! And she was like, I have to fart but I don't want to do it front of everyone! But as she went up the stairs she couldn't hold it in and you could hear a trail of farts up the stairwell haha. She also made the best pickled mustard and loved to eat duck, esp the skin (my mom was always trying to get her to stop b/c it's high in fat but my grandma said, I'm old, I don't care, let me eat it!!) Another memory I have of her is that she always had an excellent sense of direction. Even at old age, she could direct you to go to so and so's house and she always remembered where we parked. We were always impressed by her mental acuity and longevity. She'll be missed, and remembered always, for generations to come.

What important person in your life has passed away? What's your favorite memory of him/her?

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Christmas Song and Wishes

My cousin linked me to this really catchy song by Taylor Swift (she's 11 and yes I know, I'm 25.) Enjoy! I really like the lyrics. Even though I'm not religious.


What if ribbons and bows didn't mean a thing
Would the song still survive without five golden rings
Would you still wanna kiss without misletoe
What would happen if God never let it snow
What would happen if Christmas carols told a lie
Tell me what would you find

You'd see that today holds something special
Something holy, not superficial
So here's to the birthday boy who saved our lives
It's something we all try to ignore
And put a wreath up on your door
So here's something you should know that is for sure
Christmas must be something more

What if angels did not pay attention to
All the things that we wished they would always do
What if happiness came in a cardboard box
Then I think there is something we all forgot
What would happen if presents all went away
Tell me what would you find

You'd see that today holds something special
Something holy, not superficial
So here's to the birthday boy who saved our lives
It's something we all try to ignore
And put a wreath up on your door
So here's something you should know that is for sure
Christmas must be something more

We get so caught up in all of it
Business and relationships
Hundred mile an hour lives
And it's this time of year
And everybody's here
It seems the last thing on your mind

Is that the day holds something special
Something holy, not superficial
So here's to Jesus Christ who saved our lives
It's something we all try to ignore
And put a wreath up on your door
But here's something you should know that is for sure
Christmas must be something
Christmas must be something
Christmas must be something more

There's gotta be more
There's gotta be more

Have a very merry Christmas and the happiest of new years!

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Crafty Tools/Toys

I've been on a crafty kick lately since I've had some free time (I recently bought a Cuttlebug, pics to come!) and I decided that my next crafty purchase will be this when it goes on sale more (meaning at least 50% off):

image from Amazon.com
X-ACTO Heavy Duty 12" Laser Trimmer

I've wanted a paper trimmer for a while but since I don't do massive amounts of paper projects, I figured that I don't really need it right now, and so far, Jer's x-acto knife has done the trick. (I don't use scissors b/c the cuts are crooked.) But I figure that when the time comes, we'll probably want to create our own paper wedding goodies and this trimmer will come in handy. I've read different reviews and this seems to be one of the better ones.

Me: So I want this trimmer!! (c&p link)
Jer: Can't you use scissors? What do you need a laser trimmer for?!
Me: Would you rather use a handsaw or your miter saw?
Jer: OOH.
Me: Duh.
Jer: Ok, we can get one.

Crafty or not, any must-have tools/supplies that you can't live without? (cooking, photography, garage, etc)

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Death Valley


Last month, we took a much needed trip out of town and chose Death Valley as our mini-destination. Now I finally have some time to write about it! It was probably one of the best camping experiences we've ever had. Death Valley truly is a hidden gem, and it is definitely worth a trip back someday.

The drive was really long- most of it was all freeway and highway, but as we got closer, there were a couple stretches of narrow winding roads. On our way in, it was super windy also. Can you see how contorted Jer's shirt is?

We stopped by Father Crowley's Point and met a couple who told us we should hike Marble Canyon. We're so glad we did- though a bit slippery, it was fun to walk through it. We saw interesting rock formations.

Some of the passageways were quite narrow...

And some looked like that!
On our way back, I told him, hey go lie in that hole.

He did. It was funny b/c right when he climbed up there, this random hiker said, be careful of rattlesnakes! He couldn't get out of there fast enough!

No paved roads, so it got pretty dusty. I'm not a big fan of off-roading but I can imagine why some guys would think that it'd be fun. I enjoyed the first few bumpy minutes but after that I didn't really like it as much anymore.

Next we went to play in the sand dunes! It was so much fun. The sand is soft but sturdy. It wasn't too hard to get to the higher peaks.

We felt virtually alone...as if we had all the dunes to ourselves.

Sliding down seems fun in theory, but it wasn't slippery enough! Next time we need to bring a plastic sheet or a sled or something haha.

We ate pretty well- I made kebabs per Jer's request. They make for easy camp food, you just have to be willing to put in an hour or so to prep them the night before.

Emmanuell and Susan joined us also! They brought hamburgers as well as Nutella...yummy!

The first night we slept horrible. It was so windy we thought we were gonna get blown away- I'm not exaggerating. In fact, if Jerry hadn't secured the stakes as well as he did, the tent would have been dislodged from the ground and we would have been shit out of luck! None of us slept a wink that night! However, the second night we slept like babies. Instead of using individual sleeping bags, Jer found out that if he bought a certain kind Coleman sleeping bag, he could zip it up with my old Coleman sleeping bag, so we did that and had this really roomy and comfy sleeping bag. I like how sleeping bags are cozy, but I don't like how there's not that much elbow room. By doing this, it almost felt like we were sleeping in a real bed (I know, defeats the purpose of camping). Oh yeah we had inflatable sleeping pads too. We slept like kings (except when it's windy. Then we're like two mice who are scared shitless.)


We ate really unhealthy food. And managed to polish off almost a whole jar of nutella between the 3 of us (Jer doesn't like that stuff)

I spied a coyote! We also saw a kangaroo rat but it ran away before I could take a picture.

Zabrieskie Point. Boring, whatever.

Badwater Basin was pretty cool though!

What I love about Death Valley is the variety of the terrain and how you can go to hundreds of ft below sea level and then thousands of ft above sea level in an afternoon!

Trusty truck to get us everywhere. It badly needed a wash when we got home.

This is Devil's Golf Course- Jer is standing on top of really jagged salt formations.

Artist's Palette. It was pretty. You can only see it while driving- it's a one way road to get there.

The highlight of our trip had to be our trip back to the sand dunes at night. Under a gorgeous full moon and an inky sky full of stars, we hiked back to the dunes with E and S this time and had the time of our lives on the dunes! That pic is pretty crappy- but it's of Jer rolling down the dunes. E and S did it too, but I was too scared, haha.

After everyone had their share of rolling around the dunes, we laid on the very top and watched for shooting stars. Incredible feeling. We were also the only people out on the dunes. Quite a magical feeling!! On our way back, we saw some other people make their way to the dunes also. I hope they had as good of a time as we did!

Afterwards, we had planned on going swimming/showering at one of the lodging places. However, the pool wasn't heated so we opted for showering instead. Best shower ever. It was also free! It usually costs $4 a person, but since it was already after 10pm, the guy told us to just go ahead. How nice! Even so, we'd still pay $4 for a shower. You can just imagine how sandy we were after being on the sand dunes for two days in a row! We headed back, and like I mentioned above, had the best sleep ever!

Here are some more pictures at picasa. You can also go to photoist for more pics as well.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

One Year!

Today's our one year! I won't bore you with the romantical details, but I gotta say, best year of my life! Some random tidbits about the past year:
1. We've gone through 3 cameras in the past year. But after the D300 no more new cameras for another couple years...unless we can get the D700 for a steal. One can dream?
2. We have completely diff tastes in movies but we'll still watch the other person's favorites together: He's seen Fast and the Furious "somewhere between 5 and 10" times, I have seen Love Actually at least 6 times- twice in the movie theater, and once each year that it has come out on DVD.
3. We discovered early on that we work really well together in the kitchen and every since then, many delicious meals and some not so tasty "experiments" have made their way into our tummies. And subsequently on our hips/thighs.
4. We both like to read and swap books. Some of our recent favorites were The Billionaire's Vinegar and I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell. We can be found at least once a month at our local library- it works as our personal Netflix too!
5. I usually win in Scrabble, he always wins in Monopoly. We both equally suck at Rockband.
6. We enjoy teaching each other how to use the other person's tools: he taught me how to use a miter saw, I taught him how to use an eyelet setter.
7. We didn't start off our relationship by expecting the other person to be the one. We were in like, in lust, in love and we became best friends throughout the process. :)

We're under a makeshift tunnel at the Griffith Park DWP Festival of Lights (it was boring, don't go). Nice bokeh though huh! Taken with the 50mm by a random passerby. No flash, just the right settings.

Hmm, I wonder what the next year will bring us?!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

First full day of freedom! I'll hopefully be finding plenty of things to cross off on my list...stay tuned! It's going to be an awesome winter break. :)

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Just a Toothbrush

Argh, every single time I sleep somewhere, I always leave something behind. Last time it was a router, this time a toothbrush, all the other times, some other thing. I'm sick and tired of being so absentminded and forgetful- I used to never be this way! While I know I should be grateful that I have 3 homes and some people have none...I'm also annoyed at having to lug my crap around all the time. It's just a toothbrush, but I don't like being careless- what's next, my ring? My bad habit of forgetting things needs to stop NOW. Sigh, how many more months to go until I can consolidate? Sucks that all the bills and the lease are under my name, it would be douchebaggery of me to leave sooner than later...

Monday, November 24, 2008

Something random

...because school projects are keeping me from writing real posts here's something random:

me: You are currently using 5210 MB (71%) of your 7266 MB.
haha
you?
Jerry: You are currently using 68 MB (0%) of your 7266 MB.

Guess who finally started using his gmail acct? Haha Gmail > Yahoo. :P

*edit*
How many MB have you used in your gmail accts?

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Small Indulgences

My days are super busy and I don't always have time or resources to unwind with an exotic vacation or distract myself with flashy gadgets. So I've come to really appreciate the tiny indulgences- definitely things that I don't need but don't mind paying for.

1. magazine subscriptions: I currently pay for Allure and Lucky and they are worth every penny. There's nothing I look forward to more than eagerly ripping off the plastic of the latest issue, shaking out those annoying subscription thingys, and leafing through each page. I mean, I could live w/o those magazines, or I could read 'em at the library, but I like snail mail still!
2. really good chocolate: I've actually been lucky to be introduced to real chocolate at a young age and having a steady supply over the years due to my family in Germany. Also, I'm quite partial to Trader Joes milk chocolate truffle bars and Scharffen Berger bars from Susan. So for a long time now, the generic chocolate we eat tastes like...wax to me. It's just not the same! I'll still eat Snickers and Twix if it's there though. :) But when given a choice, I'd rather pay more for tasty chocolate than buy the generic kind.
3. the sunday paper: Jer signed us up on a whim and that has become one of our favorite weekend rituals- pretending to not be awake so the other person has to go downstairs to get the paper (hehe I'm kidding...sort of!), pouring over the paper during breakfast, then started our day armed with coupons and ads ready to contribute to our economy. Sigh. Last wknd alone we went to Target, Costco, Staples, Home Depot, Michaels, and Sports Authority. I don't think the Sunday paper is a necessity but it's a little treat that starts off my day just fine. We already get the news from our google readers but it's nice to read an actual newspaper every once in a while.
4. really good pens: I have a weakness for gel pens. I have pens with every color of the rainbow, and I have a friend (Hi Cam!) who goes to HK quite often and comes back with a purty stash of pens for me. I have tons of those free ballpoint pens but I still like to buy pens once in a while even though I really don't have to buy another pen for the rest of my life.
5. TV DVDs: I've curbed my DVD spending quite a bit, but I still can't resist picking up DVDs of my favorite TV shows even though I've seen nearly every episode. I tend to rewatch shows over and over- when I first got HIMYM season 1, I saw every single episode 2 times in a row, and a total of 4 times that month (with other friends). Yeah, a little overboard huh? Recently I found season 3 for $14.99 thanks to Wandering Chopsticks (I had to go to 3 Targets to find it!) and am looking forward to curling up with it during the upcoming T'giving break.

What are your small indulgences?

Btw, I have a huge Death Valley post coming up later. It's very hard to describe what DV is like...and the pictures don't really do it justice, but I'll try anyway. Stay tuned!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

twelve restaurant

From a friend:

Hi Everyone,
I'm happy to announce the opening of twelve restaurant! We will be open for business a week from today, on election day, Tuesday, November 4, 2008 at 6pm. I'm emailing everyone in my address book(s) so I apologize if you get more than one email from me about this. Visit our website, www.twelverestaurant.com to learn more about us and/or call us at 303.293.0287 to make a reservation request. And please spread the word to your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, etc! We look forward to you dining at twelve.

Lynnette M. Namba
twelve restaurant

2233 Larimer St.
Denver, CO 80205
303.293.0287

If I'm ever in Denver, I'm going to try to dine there! I like trying new places when I travel- no chains allowed!